Celebrating Fathers on Father's Day

Men Talk at The TAB and share their experiences of being a father

To all the fathers who have truly embraced the calling of fatherhood — we see you. You are the leaders, protectors, providers, and the emotionally present men your families need. You show up not just in responsibility, but with intentionality — pouring wisdom, guidance, and love into your children so they grow to reflect the fruit of your good work.

This Father’s Day, I had the honour of attending the TAB Church, where families gathered in celebration of the men in their lives. The atmosphere was magnetic — a powerful energy filled the room as fathers walked in proudly, their presence acknowledged and appreciated. Families stood to honour them, not just with applause, but with heartfelt words that spoke of legacy, love, and leadership.  

“We are male by birth, but men by choice”

These words, shared by Pastor Mike, captured the spirit of the day and the deeper truth of fatherhood. Real fatherhood is not just biological — it’s a daily decision to lead, to nurture, and to grow, and we “give honour to whom honour is due.”

“Give honour to whom honour is due.”

To all the fathers who have truly embraced the calling of fatherhood — we see you.

As a therapeutic parent coach, I regularly support families — particularly parents and adult children — who are navigating the pain of estrangement and relational breakdown. So witnessing fathers being celebrated for their consistency, care, and emotional presence was deeply moving.

Too often, men are expected to carry burdens silently. But when they choose to lead with openness, strength, and emotional awareness, they create a powerful ripple effect in their families and communities.

At Blooming Families, I support individuals and families who:

✔️ Have become estranged from their adult children
✔️ Are in emotional pain due to conflict or disconnection
✔️ Are ready and willing to do the inner work of healing
✔️ Want to break generational cycles of dysfunction
✔️ Have, or desire to create, a renewed vision for family life

3 Gentle Reminders for Fathers on the Journey:

1. Know who you are when speaking to your children

Are you reacting from unresolved wounds, or responding as an awakened, conscious man?

2. Boundaries are love

Whether with young children or adult children, boundaries are not rejection — they are protection. They create the space for mutual respect, safety, and emotional growth.

3. Men, it’s okay to talk

Speak to your pastor, your mentor, or a therapeutic parent coach. You don’t have to carry your story alone.

If you're a father who is navigating conflict with your children — or a parent who wants to build deeper, healthier family relationships — I want you to know this:
Your story doesn’t have to end in estrangement. There is hope. Healing is possible.